When I talked
in my last post on gardening about how children absorb practical knowledge from
their mothers and grandmothers, it reminded me of a lovely theory about this very
thing called the Grandmother Effect. It is about prehistory, so the theory
doesn’t have a lot of evidence to back it up, but it goes something like this:
The reason human civilization began to flourish thousands of years ago was
because people were living longer. For men it meant that they could still
father children and carry on as a hunter and provider for them, but for women
though, when they lived into their 40's, they didn’t have any more babies and
young children to care for, so they had energy and time to spend helping with
the care of their grandchildren.
Being a
grandmother is a beautiful role - you have all of the joy of your young
grandchildren and little of the work involved. And your grandchildren sense
your love and concern for them (they do carry some of your precious genes) and
that you have time to 'play' with them. Being together so much, grandmothers
had time to teach their grandchildren all sorts of practical things, like how
to find and gather food, make pots, cook, sew and practical techniques and shortcuts
they had picked up. Even more important, they told stories of what had gone
before and passed on the accumulated wisdom of their family and tribe.
But why in
the first place did we, of all creatures, have such a long period of life after our reproductive system shut down?
Evolution favours factors that improve the fitness of the species, so it is
logical that the older women must have made some significant positive
contribution. I figure it had a lot to do with the fact that we humans had
language. Those talkative grandmothers enjoying their grandchildren must have
made a far more important and far reaching contribution than they could have
imagined – in all probability they were a major factor in the beginnings of
human civilization.
Hey
Grandmothers, put that feather in your cap and keep talking. Rie
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